Divorce

So I just found out that a former fried of mine from college is now divorced. I know that this happens every day but this is honestly the first time I've actually known someone my age to get a divorce. AND the reason we stopped being friends in the first place was because she left me on the proverbial single island to fend for myself once this guy entered the scene. Two people (me and her) who were like sisters suddenly...weren't.

A huge part of me feels so bad as it seems like she never ever gets a break and I wouldn't wish divorce on anyone. Another part of me thinks, I kind of told you so (and he even told her so - he once had a conversation with her expressing his worry over how he managed to come between the two of us and urged her try and fix things).

So I'm torn, part of me wants to reach out and be there for her and another part of me knows that I'm still not ready. I hope she's not hurting but I know that she is...